Balancing university life: a guide for young adult carers
For many young people, the transition to university is an exciting time filled with new opportunities and experiences. However, for young carers, this transition can bring unique challenges. In this article, we explore how young adult carers can successfully manage both responsibilities and where they can find help when they need it.
As a young carer, you already possess skills that many of your peers may still be developing. These skills, developed through your caring role, can be invaluable as you transition to university life.
- Time management: managing school, your social life, and caring duties has likely made you an expert in time management. You’re already familiar with prioritising tasks, creating schedules, and making the most of your time; this will serve you well as you navigate university deadlines and commitments.
- Resilience and problem-solving: caring for someone often involves handling unexpected situations and making quick decisions, this demonstrates your ability to successfully manage change.
- Empathy and communication: Being a young carer has likely given you a deep sense of empathy and the ability to communicate effectively, both of which are invaluable in forming relationships with peers, tutors, and university staff.
- Crisis management: Many young carers are accustomed to dealing with crisis, which means you’re likely to stay calm under pressure.
- Independence and responsibility: As a young carer, you’ve already shouldered significant responsibilities, and this maturity and self-sufficiency will help you manage the demands of university life.
- Cooking and domestic skills: If you've been involved in meal preparation as part of your caring role, you're likely already skilled in cooking and managing household tasks. These practical skills will be invaluable when living independently at university and helping you maintain a balanced diet.
You don't have to do it alone
University life can be demanding, and it’s important to recognize when you need help. Fortunately, there are resources and support systems available to support young adult carers:
- Access university support services, including financial advice, counselling and academic guidance;
- Communicate with your tutors;
- Connect with other young carers both in your new area, and when you return back to our area during breaks and holidays.
Did you know?
As a carer 18 years or over, you are legally entitled to a carer assessment. Transitioning into the adult world is the perfect time to reach out to Adult Social Care for a carer's assessment to look at what specific support you need and are entitled to. Contact the team on 01225 394570 to book yours.
Balancing self-care with responsibility
Being a young adult carer often means putting others’ needs before your own, but it’s important to prioritise your wellbeing too.
- Practice self-care by making time for activities that help you relax and recharge, such as exercising, reading, or spending time with friends.
- Set clear boundaries and share these regularly with your family; it's OK to say no if something isn't possible.
- Reach out when you need it. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, don’t hesitate to seek help. Whether it’s talking to a friend, a counsellor, or a support service, reaching out can make a big difference. We are always on hand for a chat or to find specific support for you.
Looking to the future
Balancing university and a caring role is undoubtedly challenging, but it’s also an opportunity for growth and development. By building a strong support network, managing your time effectively, and prioritising self-care, you can thrive in both your academic and caring responsibilities.
Remember, you’re not alone. There are many young carers successfully navigating university life, and there’s a wealth of support available to help you along the way. With the right strategies in place, you can achieve your academic goals while continuing to provide invaluable care to your loved ones.